Thursday, 13 February 2014

Is using sex toys a sin for married Christians?

Christian Marriage Toys
Overview
God has created all human beings in the world. Thoughts of various things are natural and thinking about sex is definitely a natural element. The attraction and desire to be with the opposite sex is considered to be common as it has been instilled in us by the Heavenly Father. The strong feeling towards the opposite sex sometimes intensifies when they are physically very attractive. This gift of sexual thought has to be exercised with control when a Christian thinks of it as a craving desire. Some people feel that it is impossible for them not to think of sex or discontinue having sex. This seems to be sin if a person is unmarried. By persisting with the thought of sex you may allow your connection with Saturn to increase. This will push you away from the Almighty and allow sin to increase. One of the temptations for these sexual thoughts may come from books, movies or music containing sexual images. As a Christian do not get affected by them deeply.

Using Sexual Toys     
Several Christians bear this question in mind as to the usage of sexual toys, and whether they are regarded as sin. It is believed that there is no passage in the Bible that gives an opinion against or for the utilization of artificial sexual stimulation. On the other hand, it is relevant to note that all things related to sex should be conformed within the marriage. Some of the reasons considered as sinful for using sexual toys comprise:  

Reason No.1
The usage of sexual toys between two married people may be permitted, but it is considered to be certainly wrong between unmarried persons as it is believed to be a type of foreplay. 

Reason No.2 
Selling of sexual materials in certain places is normally linked with pornography. Hence, it is not suitable for Christians to shop in these areas. They should take this as a warning signal that something is morally wrong. 

Reason No.3 
Sometimes it is felt that priority is provided to only personal pleasure that may prove to be dangerous. When only pleasure is the aim of a Christian, he or she may not adhere to the path of morality. This especially imposes an issue on single individuals. The aim of a true Christian is just not only fulfilling sexual passion.

Reason No.4 
It is felt that if a person depends on sexual toy to fulfill sex, it is not only dangerous, but also harmful. Such an act may harm the single individual when he or she gets married. On the other hand, using sex toy can help a person to feel satisfied without having a partner.

Outlook  
The usefulness of sexual toys is not considered to be very encouraging. In certain cases perhaps these devices may be partially helpful. Sometimes it is felt that people can make themselves happy without other’s help through these toys. But, it is certainly advisable that a couple should recognize each other’s desires and try to satisfy to lead a happy and morally healthy life.